No one thinks each other as outsiders, so it isn't right to treat someone lesser to show that the other is worth more to you.
Treat others how you want yourself to be treated. We are human, we have feelings. It isn't fair to be treating others bad and complaining if others treat you bad.
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I am a complete moron for speaking too fast and stupidly due to stress. What i meant was that i don't feel that i am being used. I just feel useless after i have finished helping/ can't help.